Oh he wastes no time. As soon as there is oil, he's shifting, moving to get it open. It takes both of his hands off of Thanatos's body, but he leaves his mouth shallowly on his cock in a show of some combination of skill and trust, licking slow and thorough at the underside while his hands work.

He slides the first finger in slow and careful, but he knows from experience that Phillip, at least, is hard to break, hard to over-rush here. So long as the reactions he's getting are positive, he'll move quickly, unwilling to cause pain but definitely with a touch of impatience to get to the part where he can be inside him.